One thing taken apart at a time.
Every Monday a few of us get on a call and take one thing apart. Not a lecture. No experts in the room. Just the thing itself, looked at honestly, by people who live inside it.
These are the guides that go with those sessions. Each one is written to stand on its own, so you can read it before, after, or instead. Nobody is behind for not having read one, and nobody is ahead for having read them all.
You don't have to join anything to read them. They're here because they're useful, and because a community that says it has no hidden rules should be willing to show its work.
15 guides
The little things that bring us back to center.
Read the guide →Building a divergent movement.
Read the guide →Why we loop, and what actually helps.
Read the guide →On what happens to our closest connections when the ground gives out, and the quiet, patient ways we find back.
Read the guide →The bias you can't outrun.
Read the guide →On finding out who you were, after most of the story was already written.
Read the guide →The gap between us and them, and how we close it together.
Read the guide →Why rest and getting started are the same problem, and a full toolkit for both.
Read the guide →On the things, tasks, and people that vanish the moment we can't see them.
Read the guide →On the body that speaks first, and the "no" you can't explain.
Read the guide →Cognitive accommodations, and what the law does and doesn't require.
Read the guide →How to hold on when none of it feels manageable.
Read the guide →Autism accommodations as a patient, a customer, an account holder.
Read the guide →The room is small, often quiet, and that's fine. Lurking counts as showing up.
No experts in the room. Just us.